I remember when my father, Henry, turned seventy-five. At the time, I’d pegged him as a restless soul who had lived many lives in a single span, weaving a tapestry of adventures that shaped the person he’d become. From my earliest days, Dad was the type to take me hiking at dawn or spontaneously suggest camping on a random weekend, always itching for the next exploration. Yet as the years crept up, I saw his vibrancy tempered by time, his once-ferocious pace slowing to a measured stroll. He moved into a quieter life, especially after my mother passed away.
I never questioned Dad’s sense of adventure, but I hardly expected him to propose a 1,300-mile road trip for his birthday. Initially, it struck me as one of his whimsical ideas: maybe he just wanted to see the sights, chase a sunrise in a faraway place. But something about the look in his eyes that morning told me this was more than a whim. This was serious.
It was a Saturday, the first truly warm day after an unseasonably cool spring, and I’d dropped by his small suburban house, the one I had grown up in. I set a box of groceries on his counter—milk, bread, a few of his favorite snacks. Dad was seated in the kitchen, his once-broad shoulders hunched slightly, sipping tea from a chipped mug.
“Mark,” he said, setting down his tea, “I want to do something special for my seventy-fifth.”
I smiled. “I figured we’d throw you a party, maybe grill in the backyard. All the grandkids would come. Sound good?”
He shook his head with a gentleness that startled me. “Thank you, but no. I have something else in mind: a road trip. Me and you, 1,300 miles. A very special place by the coast.” His gray eyes gleamed with an undercurrent of quiet determination.