Ryan O’Neal’s passing in December 2023 marked the end of a long and memorable career in film and television. As friends and colleagues reflected on his accomplishments, questions arose about why several of his children were not present at his small memorial service. His son Redmond, who had faced long-term health and personal challenges, was receiving care in a California facility at the time and was unable to attend. Their relationship had experienced many difficult periods, and circumstances prevented him from being present during his father’s final farewell.

Ryan’s eldest son, Griffin, also did not attend the service. After traveling across the country, he learned the gathering would take place later and that he was not included in the private arrangements. Their relationship had become strained over the years, and past conflicts made reconnection difficult. Ryan’s daughter, Tatum, who had reconciled with him in more recent years after a long estrangement, was also absent from the ceremony. The service was organized by Ryan’s son Patrick, who had remained closely involved in his father’s life.

Following Ryan’s passing, there were public discussions surrounding his resting place beside Farrah Fawcett, with differing opinions about how their story should be remembered. Those close to the family expressed that the connection between Ryan and Farrah had been meaningful despite challenges throughout their relationship. Their shared resting place reflects the bond they maintained over many years.

In the months after the memorial, Patrick continued to honor his father’s legacy, including advocating for Ryan to be recognized during the Television Academy’s “In Memoriam” segment. His efforts were successful, and Ryan was ultimately acknowledged. While many remember Ryan O’Neal for his celebrated roles, his story also reflects the complexities of family relationships, the impact of time, and the hope that understanding can be found even after difficult chapters.